A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle


It’s always hard to sum up Eckhart Tolle’s books because he doesn’t really speak to your mind. That’s why I like listening to it casually as an audio book.

One year after reading the Power of Now, I decided to tackle A New Earth and it was amazing again. The Power of Now insists more on being in the present and quieting the voice in your head.

A New Earth expands more on the pain body and the mechanisms of the ego. What I love with the book is how you can recognize when these operate within yourself. By bringing these unconscious programs to your awareness, Eckhart Tolle makes them weaker. As he mentions, you don’t fight darkness, you simply bring light to it and it disappears.

The pain body and victim mode

We all sometimes operate on a victim mode. Meaning we actually seek issues or pain. Eckhart Tolle describes it very well and as you read it you will identify the moments when you do it. I identified some road rage moments for example when I was unconsciously seeking a situation that would make me angry.


Unconditional love

Eckhart Tolle speaks also well about unconditional love. He explains well the power and beauty of unconditional love. Beauty because of its purity, you don’t ask for anything in return. Power because as it is unconditional, it cannot be taken away from you.

I intend to re-read it soon because there was quite more to it but just these 2 things allowed me to have a better life and better relationships.

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie


I had delayed reading this book for a while because I didn’t like the title. It sounded manipulative and I had no interest in this. A friend of mine convinced me it wasn’t, which is true. It insists on the importance of developing a genuine interest for others and a change in perspective.

Here is what I got from the book. These seem like very simple things but the book helped me grasp these concepts and take actionable steps.

Everyone is the center of their universe: 

Everyone views the world from their own eyes and consciousness. We often lack the perspective and intelligence to remind ourselves that it’s the same for everyone. For every situation, it pays off to simply look at the situation from the other person’s eyes and see what’s important to this person. This will make the people like and follow you.


Shift your perspective:

What I like with the book is that it’s not just a technic to manipulate. It does a great job convincing you that it is the way to grow and learn, because your perspective is often wrong or flawed and would improve if you could get out of your own head. In reminds me of Ray Dalio in Principles who states the importance of getting surrounded with people with different perspectives. I find meditation really helps to actually do it too.


Try to learn, not to be right:

The book makes also a great job convincing you that instead of trying to be right or to impress, it is more important to listen and actually focus on learning. You learn more by listening and considering the possibility of being wrong rather than trying to be right.


To help yourself, help others:

The book demonstrates you that the best way to be selfish is to actually be nice and interested in others. You will get back way more than you give. It develops this idea in a very rational way.

The book was written in the 30s but its knowledge completely applies Today.